[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.fleuron.cz\/proc-jsou-ocekavani-ve-vztahu-nebezpecna\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.fleuron.cz\/proc-jsou-ocekavani-ve-vztahu-nebezpecna\/","headline":"Pro\u010d jsou o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed ve vztahu nebezpe\u010dn\u00e1","name":"Pro\u010d jsou o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed ve vztahu nebezpe\u010dn\u00e1","description":"\u017dijete-li ve vztahu, je nevyhnuteln\u00e9, \u017ee od n\u011bj budete n\u011bco o\u010dek\u00e1vat. A nejen od vztahu jako celku, ale p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm od…","datePublished":"2023-05-07","dateModified":"2023-05-07","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.fleuron.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.fleuron.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e7b590144558ebad68292226b8af0772e2d53ba82fa105c348ae9b5254e51a11?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e7b590144558ebad68292226b8af0772e2d53ba82fa105c348ae9b5254e51a11?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"fleuron.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.fleuron.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a340705_w2314_t1553601859.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.fleuron.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a340705_w2314_t1553601859.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.fleuron.cz\/proc-jsou-ocekavani-ve-vztahu-nebezpecna\/","wordCount":663,"articleBody":"\u017dijete-li ve vztahu, je nevyhnuteln\u00e9, \u017ee od n\u011bj budete n\u011bco o\u010dek\u00e1vat. A nejen od vztahu jako celku, ale p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm od va\u0161eho partnera \u2013 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1te, \u017ee se k\u00a0v\u00e1m bude chovat ur\u010dit\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem, d\u011blat ur\u010dit\u00e9 v\u011bci, \u017ee vy se s\u00a0n\u00edm d\u00edky tomu budete n\u011bjak c\u00edtit a na to navazuj\u00ed dal\u0161\u00ed a dal\u0161\u00ed ud\u00e1losti a pocity.\tCo se v\u0161ak stane v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee m\u00e1te na toho druh\u00e9ho p\u0159emr\u0161t\u011bn\u00e9 n\u00e1roky a chcete po n\u011bm p\u0159\u00edli\u0161? A kdy k\u00a0tomu v\u016fbec dojde?\t\tKdy se va\u0161e o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed nenapl\u0148uj\u00ed?\t\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Pokud nedostate\u010dn\u011b p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edte o tom, jak\u00fd v\u00e1\u0161 druh je \u2013 nebo pokud to dokonce ani po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b nev\u00edte. Nap\u0159 nelze o\u010dek\u00e1vat od zaryt\u00e9ho dlouholet\u00e9ho ku\u0159\u00e1ka, \u017ee b\u011bhem dvou dn\u016f s\u00a0t\u00edmto zlozvykem p\u0159estane jen proto, \u017ee si to p\u0159ejete a vyt\u00fdk\u00e1te mu to. Stejn\u011b jako \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd je zvykl\u00fd cel\u00fd \u017eivot prop\u00edjet v\u00fdplatu na ve\u010d\u00edrc\u00edch a b\u011bhat po barech nep\u0159im\u011bjete hrav\u011b k\u00a0tomu, aby se s\u00a0v\u00e1mi v\u00a0p\u00e1tek ve\u010der d\u00edval doma na televizi.\t\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Pokud jste si na za\u010d\u00e1tku va\u0161eho vztahu nenasd\u00edleli sv\u00e1 vz\u00e1jemn\u00e1 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed dostate\u010dn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. \u010cek\u00e1te t\u0159eba po n\u011bkolika letech, \u017ee v\u00e1s v\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159\u00edtel romanticky po\u017e\u00e1d\u00e1 o ruku na \u00fatesu u mo\u0159e, p\u0159i z\u00e1padu slunce? Jste spolu deset let a ono po\u0159\u00e1d nic? Mo\u017en\u00e1, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159\u00edtel se zkr\u00e1tka nechce zasnoubit t\u00edmto zp\u016fsobem. Nebo se mo\u017en\u00e1 nechce v\u016fbec nikdy \u017eenit. Bu\u010f v\u00e1m to jen zat\u00edm ne\u0159ekl, nebo jste se na toto t\u00e9ma nikdy nebavili. Nelze v\u0161ak o\u010dek\u00e1vat, \u017ee n\u011bco takov\u00e9ho p\u0159ijde samo od sebe, pokud nic v\u00a0uplynul\u00e9 dob\u011b nenazna\u010doval nebo nesd\u011blil, \u017ee by to cht\u011bl n\u011bkdy prov\u00e9st.\t\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nesd\u00edl\u00edte otev\u0159en\u011b s\u00a0va\u0161\u00edm partnerem, co od n\u011bj \u010dek\u00e1te. U\u017e n\u011bjakou dobu se nen\u00e1padn\u011b zastavujete v\u00a0obchodech u n\u011bjak\u00e9 drah\u00e9 kabelky a jen tak si postesknete, jak by se v\u00e1m l\u00edbila v\u00a0domn\u011bn\u00ed, \u017ee ji p\u0159\u00edtel p\u0159i nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitosti koup\u00ed a d\u00e1 v\u00e1m ji k\u00a0narozenin\u00e1m? A co kdy\u017e potom dostanete n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho a jste zklaman\u00e1? Mo\u017en\u00e1 nen\u00ed od v\u011bci pochopit, \u017ee mu\u017ei a \u017eeny zkr\u00e1tka uva\u017euj\u00ed jin\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. \u017deny jsou zvykl\u00e9 komunikovat v\u00a0n\u00e1znac\u00edch a oklikou, kde\u017eto mu\u017ei jdou v\u011bt\u0161inou rovnou k\u00a0v\u011bci. Proto je nezbytn\u00e9 v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee od sv\u00e9ho prot\u011bj\u0161ku n\u011bco \u010dek\u00e1te nebo tou\u017e\u00edte, aby ud\u011blal n\u011bjak\u00fd krok ur\u010dit\u00fdm sm\u011brem \u2013 \u0159\u00edct to! Jinak by se taky mohlo st\u00e1t, \u017ee budete \u010dekat v\u011b\u010dn\u011b.\t\t\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Sobecky o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1te, \u017ee se stane v\u0161e, co si nadiktujete. Nemyslete jen na sebe. To, \u017ee vy n\u011bco chcete a \u010dek\u00e1te, \u017ee v\u00e1m to druh\u00fd v\u00a0minut\u011b spln\u00ed, nen\u00ed zrovna partnersky p\u0159\u00edv\u011btiv\u00e9. Zamyslete se nad danou v\u011bc\u00ed a nad t\u00edm, pro\u010d ji vlastn\u011b chcete. A nen\u00ed to n\u00e1hodou jen va\u0161e p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed? Opravdu to chce i ten druh\u00fd? Promluvte si s\u00a0n\u00edm o tom. A co kdy\u017e to nechce? Pak ho nenu\u0165te. P\u0159ece v\u00edte, \u017ee v\u00e1m neprosp\u011bje si n\u011bkter\u00e9 v\u011bci vynutit. Potom z\u00a0nich stejn\u011b nebudete m\u00edt takovou radost, jako kdyby si je p\u0159\u00e1la i ta druh\u00e1 strana. Nebu\u010fte sobe\u010dt\u00ed a neo\u010dek\u00e1vejte n\u011bco jen proto, \u017ee \u201ej\u00e1 to chci a basta\u201c!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.2\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Pro\u010d jsou o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed ve vztahu nebezpe\u010dn\u00e1","item":"https:\/\/www.fleuron.cz\/proc-jsou-ocekavani-ve-vztahu-nebezpecna\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]